Live a Little – Every Day
You never know what life brings your way next. Enjoy it while you can. Live a little – EVERY day.
What Are You Waiting For?
My Mom was a young girl in Germany during World War II. Her family rented a small apartment right by a major target of frequent allied bombings. Day and night bombings. After coming out of the bomb shelter you never knew who of your friends and family were still alive and whose home and possessions survived the bombings. If there was a direct hit on a bomb shelter, chances were good that no one inside survived. And most important to continued survival, you immediately needed to know, who had a well with a hand pump that still pumped water out of the ground.
At some point, children in these highly targeted areas were sent into the countryside to live in youth hostels with teachers and chaperones. Conditions and food were meager and my mother, who was eleven years old at the time, was separated from her family. At one point she received a package from her mother, a special treat. In it was a piece of home-baked cake and an orange. Such luxury! How her mother was able to secure those items and get them shipped to her daughter – no one will ever know. My mother cherished those two items beyond measure. Despite being hungry all the time, she just couldn’t bring herself to eat them. Eventually the orange rotted and the bugs got the piece of cake. On top of it all, my mother got a thorough beating when her “wastefulness” was discovered. My mother is over 80 years old now and she still beats herself up over being such a stupid girl and wasting that food. She may never understand or be able to forgive herself.
Call to Action and Why This Matters:
What is it that you have been saving or postponing for some future time that may never come?
• How about that special item of clothing that when you finally have a reason to wear it, it no longer fits.
• How about that special china or silverware that you accumulated after your wedding but only use a couple of times each year (or not at all).
• How about that special treat that you stuck in the back of your freezer and promptly forgot.
• How about money spent on a hobby that you will make time for “as soon as …”
• How about that special trip or dream vacation that you have been putting off for years.
• How about that exercise equipment that you will start to use “when ….”
We probably all have things that we are saving “for a special occasion”, things that we consider so special that they need to be saved.
During a recent power outage that lasted long enough for me to question whether anything in my freezer was still safe to eat I took stock. There was a bag of giant shrimp, probably bought as a special treat several years ago. There was that turkey that never made it onto our Thanksgiving dinner table. There was some steak, badly freezer burned and now melted, purchase date about 5 years ago.
After throwing it all out I vowed to buy special treats and eat them, not save them.
I also unpacked some fancy china that had been in a box much too long.
What will you stop saving and start using, eating, enjoying, make time for – starting NOW?
Taking it Farther:
1. Take a look around. Check your closets, your cabinets, your freezer, your basement or attic or any storage areas you may have.
2. What can you enjoy that you are currently saving?
3. Vow to enjoy life a little more each day.
• If you have a special treat in your freezer declare a special day in the next two weeks and eat it. Even better, invite friends or family to share it with you.
• If you have a special clothing item, plan an outing where you can wear it within the next month.
• If you have special china, declare one day each month (or each week) as special china day, make a meal and create a festive atmosphere to enjoy it.
• If you have a hobby you have been neglecting, set aside a few hours once each week to spend time with it.
• If you have exercise equipment you have been saving, decide if it is something you enjoy doing, would enjoy doing alone or with others. Then carve out time, create a group or get rid of it and get something that you would like instead.
• If you have always wanted to take a trip, start planning it. Research your destination, what you would want to do, how long you would want to be there, how much it will cost, who you would like to go with. Then create a savings account just for that purpose and plan how much money you will contribute to it on a regular basis until you have enough to go. If time is the issue, start to figure out what all needs to be done so you can be gone for that amount of time. Plan it as if you are really going to go — because you are!
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